By: Amanda Kaestner Having grown up with a mother who was an RN for both in-home and traditional nursing homes, she’s had an appreciation for the well-being of today’s seniors by volunteering at VA hospitals and attending veteran events in her town.
If you’re considering a nursing home or an assisted living agency for a beloved senior, selecting one is an arduous process. Researching, locating, making unannounced visits to, and choosing the absolute best nursing home or reputable at-home service is neither simple nor easy. Although both have benefits that make them viable options, it’s critically important to do your due diligence before deciding.
Traditional Assisted Homes
The reality is – no one wants to move to a nursing home; no one dreams of it, hopes for it, or is happy about it if the time comes. Seniors want to continue growing older with dignity, respect, and an ability to make choices. Nursing homes don’t often provide the opportunity for these seemingly-simple standards of living. It’s not that the facilities don’t mean to take away a resident’s rights, self-esteem, confidence, feeling of safety, or joy – it just often happens as a result of the facilities being understaffed and/or staffed with minimum wage aides who don’t really want to be there either. If you take a moment to peruse Medicare’s long list of a resident’s rights in a nursing home (and what should be done if those rights are violated) you might wonder why it’s necessary to list all these basic-human privileges. You would hope that being talked to kindly, getting warm meals, and not being physically neglected or emotionally hurt would never be commonplace at a facility focused on caring for seniors; but, that is not always the reality. Fortunately, the movement across America has been toward a person-centered care philosophy where nursing home residents can bathe, eat, sleep, and enjoy their life in sync with their own particular life’s rhythm and not by some rigid, inflexible schedule set forth by a facility’s director.
Not every resident is the same, especially for seniors coping with mental health issues like Alzheimer’s or Dementia. Nursing conferences and culture change workshops across America are being held to teach staff how to instill the patient-centered care mission and create an environment where residents direct their own lives and make their own decisions. More specialty assisted living facilities are doing things different than what was done in the past in order to personalize the living experience for each and every resident. According to the Health Care Management Group, more of these types of full-time care facilities offer more than traditional nursing homes and are capable of servicing their residents with rehabilitation after injuries or to control their pain management, they offer speech therapy and stimulating activities to help with memory care. Activities are optional and the area on these properties is bright and spacious allowing residents to wander safely within a beautiful natural setting. More facilities are going the extra mile to ensure maximum comfort for their residents to give them more of living experience rather than feeling cared for
In-Home Living Services
With this choice, your loved one lives in the comfort, privacy, and security of his/her (or your) family home and the professional healthcare workers and caregivers come to the home as often as you schedule the visits. Depending on the medical needs and challenges of your loved one, this option truly provides the absolute best scenario for an individual if you and your other family members are able to physically and emotionally embrace the roles of being caregivers yourselves – even alongside a 24/7 caregiver you may hire. Having the healthcare providers come to your home and making a few physical adjustments to your property may be all you need to enable your loved one to remain at home. In a 2013 Forbes article, making small changes in the living space like adding a ramp or railings, removing throw rugs, or installing shower bars may be all you need to do to “keep them [seniors] out of nursing facilities for months or even years” or ideally – indefinitely so there’s never a goodbye to a dreaded nursing home.
Finding the right facility or caregiver doesn’t have to be something to worry about or be afraid of. Accepting care should never be taken as a reflection of a person’s inner strength and with the options that are out there today, there are many dignified routes to go about assisted living whether in-home or at a facility. Remember, just because someone is living doesn’t really mean they’re alive and every human being has the right to enjoy their life at any age. So explore your options and don’t settle for anything less than what best fits the medical and overall comfort needed.